  i don't know if i should break up with my boyfriend. part of me wants to because i feel like i'm not getting my fair share in this relationship. another part of me feels like we can work this out. i don't know if i have the strength to work this out though.
it's so hard to get through to him. his greatest effort at making up is simply showing up and saying "i'm sorry" but then nothing changes afterwards and we end up fighting about the same thing over and over again. my friends tell me to hold on. they think we have such a great thing going. i used to think that too. now i just don't know anymore. he always breaks his promises, he says one thing and does another, he never calls, and he can't stand talking about "the relationship".
it's like everything is black and white for him but i'm swimming and drowning in a sea of grey. i know people say you shouldn't look for a perfect relationship because it doesn't exist. you're bound to have problems with whoever you're with. but how do you choose what you can live with and what you can't live with? 
