  ............................................................ who ever said that optimism is a virtue? ............................................................ i say yes to too many obligations. i make too many friends (i love them all, mind you). i expect to finish work in less time than i do. i see the spark of beauty in people who haven't muich more than a spark. does it sound like i'm a good guy? i'm not. ask my wife. living with an optimist is a special kind of hell. that should be the name of a song, eh? 
