  Well, we have Abby's house Saturday at noon. We all REALLY need to try our best to be there, because this isn't something that's going to go away on its own. From the posts, apparently yall want to go with #3. This is about our only opportunity, and we really need to take advantage of it. We need to talk this out in person, and unless someone else has a better suggestion, this is going to be our only chance. Besides, I don't know how long we can last without having this little conversation... 
