  Very interesting question by Rini.  " But what makes u feel urself.  let me try to make an exhaustive list.  When I do what " I"
 like to do.  when I have the freedom to do everything " I"  want to do.  when I have my dear one( s)
 near me.  when I see that smile on the face of the special someone.  when I can express myself with a wide genuine smile.  when someone cries for me.  when someone smiles for me…  when I know I have one,
 to do these two for me…  when that person is near me.  when someone tells me " I miss u"  I may not be exhaustive.  this is all that I could manage at my level of spontaneity…
 but this does make me a point.  a lot depends on the companion you are with –  parent or friend or spouse.  depending on what stage of your life you are in.  its that companion and that companionship that imbibes a sense of belonging.  to instill an "
all is not lost"  feeling when all seems lost to you.  to re- instate what you are composed of.  and to make u feel yourself.
