  I could learn a lot from *this* one: Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. - Paul Boese Forgiving & forgetting is the hardest thing for me to do; I've got a lot of baggage like this that I've carried around for years. I know it's in the past and that I can't do anything about the past but can do something about the future, but the pain is still there. 
