  Rankings Our email/calendar/scheduling application at work is a product from Novell called urlLink Groupwise. It's pretty handy, and it does the same stuff that things like Outlook do. In the address book feature, there's a list of "frequent contacts". People you write to, copy to, or receive email from often, are all tallied with the number of "references" that they generate. I write to my girlfriend alot, so after 2 years here, it's not supprising that there are 3090 references beside her name. I've either writen to, copied, or recieved email from her about 3100 times over the course of 2 years. Here's the breakdown of my top 5 most referred people in my frequent contacts list: 1. My girlfriend (3090).
2. Her sister (375). 3. A friend of mine from highschool (215). 4. My mother (117). 5. Me (160). Me. I have written to myself more often then I have to anyone that I actually work with. To be fair, it's my address at home that I've written to so many times. I forward emails home to answer them there, or email spreadsheets or documents that I'm working on home. 
