  to rags: if you are reading this and feel like shit, don't. it's not that i don't love you anymore, because i do with all my heart. it's just that some of your habits seem more and more annoying and that is something i cannot ignore. something else i can't ignore is that there is nothing you can do to change yourself. not now. so please just give me time and space to think things through, let me decide whether it's worth it. 
