  My more astute readers have noticed there hasn't been much recent mention of T., the wonderstud I met at urlLink Market Days . Fear not, for he's still in the picture. It's just that our explosive early passion has subsided to a very nice friendship with benefits -- like daily phone calls, shared giggles over potty humor, free haircuts and highlights, and once-or-twice-a-week get-togethers with lots of handholding and laughter and motorcycle rides (woof) ... and other fun stuff. So things are going well -- but they're not headed in a road-to-boyfriendhood kind of direction. Which is apparently fine with both of us. 
