  Well, I didn't find The Dress, but I have definitely decided on The Neckline, The Cut and The Level of Decoration. Hopefully, some designer out there makes it. And hopefully some shop around here sells it. And, here's the big one, hopefully it's in my price range.
A couple other updates: We are thisclose to hiring a DJ. A friend of Jon's family is in the biz, and it's just a matter of going to see him at someone else's wedding (weird, I know, but common I guess) to make sure he's what we want, eventhough we already know he is. Then there's just the matter of paying the deposit and signing the contract. Mere formality. We've also got the baker taken care of, thanks to my friendly coworker with a "perfectionst" son a year out of culinary school who does wedding and anniversary cakes. Zach "does great work", "loves a challenge", and will do "anything you want, just bring him pictures and tell him the flavor".
So, for those of you keeping score at home we have: The Place The Photographer The DJ The Cake Not too bad for a wedding that's still over a year away. 
