  I finally got around to correcting some stray links and adding a few new ones. This includes the first ever Sex Blog on my blogroll.
I think I got too interested in winning a place in the inner circle of blogging and forgot about (to borrow a subject from my new Sex Blogger buddy) servicing my own needs. If you really care about the state of blogging, I guess you feel a responsibility to not link to the big fish that already get plenty of links, but rather to the medium-sized fish. The blogroll is supposed to represent people you interacted with, too. Well fuck that. My blogroll is for me as much as the reader, and it's going to start reflecting what I read all the time, rather than who may or may not have deigned to interact with me. Having said that, I added two bloggers that have actually interacted with me ( urlLink Twiddly Bits and urlLink Rebecca Blood ) and removed one who dissed me ( urlLink Ricky Williams , but I don't hold a grudge, he's busy with a new radio program. He must put all his blogging energies into talk radio. Plus, I think his coach busted him for blogging about a game he shouldn't have mentioned).
So, to address the self named Indecent Blog , I really hope readers won't get squeamish on me. Twiddly is very creative--in bed and on the keyboard--in fact, she just accomplished a lifelong goal of double penetration. Am I living vicariously through her blog? Lackluster in bed has never been a problem for me, despite the fact that I've never done DP. I think a sex blog is no different than any other personal blog, in that it offers you a chance to broaden your experiences of people in the world. Maslow said experience is the only real educator, and I've always lived that myself and taught that to my kids. Thanks to Twiddly, my view of the world is a tiny bit wider, and hence, I am a little more educated.
I bet other things in peoples' worlds are a tiny bit wider thanks to her, too, but that's another, er, entry altogether. To some small degree, I'm probably rebelling to the general prudification of the world right now. Janet seemed to be some sort of a catalyst for the religious right, and suddenly everything is a little dull from all the censorship. Btw, I link to urlLink Lizbeth of Mom and Pop Culture a lot these days in entries, but she still isn't on the blogroll. She is on the blogroll on my momblog, urlLink the SprogBlog , and I'm still trying to decide if she crosses over enough to put her here, too. urlLink Gwen is a mom who blogs, but she remains here. There's a logic to this, but it's too complicated to explain. 
