  BFFs So tonight, P. who is a guy I used to date but then we broke up for a long time and then out of the blue we get reaquainted and things are different and better but the vibe isn't there, you know, is coming over to stay the night (whew!
that was all in one breath too! ) Anyway, let me explain. He has this thing he goes to on Wednesdays that's close to my house. He's living on the otherside of town, so crashing at my place makes more sense then driving an hour home. The thing is that the last time he came over we had been "officially" an item. Then he freaked out about something and wanted to take it slower.
I said that was fine with me (and girls, it really was fine. ) So when he said "let's be friends," I thought that meant "we're not dating, but we're only friends. " But I think he may be under the impression that we are dating just in more Victorian terms. (I have a feeling this is going to be a long, complicated story made even longer and more complicated. I'll try to cut it down. ) So to recap: We went out. We broke up for several years. We got reaquainted recently. We went out.
He freaked out. He wanted to be "friends. " I said "No problem. " He wants to take it back. I said "Let's slow down. " I think he still thinks we're dating but it's just without the sex or anything that looks like two people dating. Whew! I need a nap. Don't be surprised if this gets edited later. 
