  I was in a quandary. I realized that guys have a better chance at going for girls younger than them. That just proves that men are lesser than women, if anything else to a world where women feel like the lesser of the two genders. In my experience, the women I have had a crush on are pretty close to my age. Well by my standard a maximum of less than 5 years difference is ok with me. Given that my grandfather is 8 years older than my grandma and that my great grandfather bettered that by 12 years ( 20 years older). It’s just that all the girls around my age always had a boyfriend or “lover” who was always 4-8 years older than them. These were also the girls I liked and I felt pretty bad that these guys have already had their accomplishments to show for. It’s these accomplishments that so matter that makes all the guys of the girl’s peers seem so immature or useless. I always had the fantasy of growing with someone through adolescence. It would have been a cool trip to be there as two would grow older with one another. But as I grow older I realize why would some girl stay with some guy who can’t support her or if ever they get into trouble take care of her. I admit I’m jealous of the older guys who get my female peers who I like. They could be ten years older than me and get my crush.
Honestly there is one guy I know who has that difference with me in those years who I don’t mind winning over my crush. They say women like men who they can change and men like their women to stay the same. It is quite funny to see that a man who is an old dog is being taught new tricks, while a growing young lady is expected to stunt her growth. I’m looking forward to the time I would grow old to have a girlfriend half my age… or on the average 3/4th my age. Like every guy and his gadgets always getting the new model that comes by every 2 years. I know this might sound so… piggish to some people. Its my opinion anyway. It would take a good 10 years before that would ever happen and I guess having gone through this kind of adult hood I feel like I deserve it.
There is no harm if both parties are after flings anyway. Just remember that an older guy can pay for a weekend retreat to Hawaii or some romantic get away than the other guy…. And if you’re the girl who has the heart enough to see past waiting for change in a man and accepting him as he is then good for you… enjoy the guy who is near your age.
Don’t expect expensive gifts (“bribes”) from him though. Not a shopping spree, nor a free spa treatment when ever, or a car… and someone who can be a financial umbrella despite economic independence. When I get old… and come back here. I hope I have made enough wealth to start buying the new models that would come out of the wood work. I’m sure living my youthful fantasy is the way to live. And the other guys out there… you may be old… you may not have those looks, you may not have to scrimp and save anymore, no more small apartment, or cheap dates. You come back home to the Philippines… your around 35 unmarried… working out in the Gym. No kids, A dollar account, and American. Its Christmas everyday. Social Events your invited to try to cash in on you hard work, GROs, young ladies who just started working or are in their OJT.
You come in with such youthful humor and playfulness. Your 35 you can bide your time and pick from the litter. You have money, You have security and you have a citizenship to a country that won’t try to screw itself over. You have 10,000 peso dinners, as well as find 10,000 peso ass. You are from here and know what ass is worth 10grand. Not to mention, you have the charms to maybe bet more BANG for your BUCK! I wish my boss would take me cruising with him and I wish I get to choose the chicks he bangs. I mean… women he bangs, I mean I think being a fil I would know what ass would be hotter… he can’t distinguish us anyway. I’m watching Legend of the Condor Hero that shows at 11:00, 4:00 and 7:00. everyday. Now living life with only love and a past-time of combat not to mention a woman who loves you… (being pretty is a bonus) 
