  So most of my friends are single, through no choice of their own. One will probably be single soon because the woman of the last three years just won't stand on her own two feet for damn near every day to day issue. Women are out there. They say they want love and respect from men. Fromn what I can tell in the US, what they really want is a bank account they don't work for. At the same time, men have dropped into wanting a free whore. I used to work with a really sexy woman in a record store. After about the first week, we got to talking prtty easy, and her pet peeve was what she called "Washing Machine Whores". They were the tennis club wives wearing the little dresses everywhere they went. They didn't give two fucks about their husbands or really their kids. They cared if they had the best car of all their girl friends, the best house, the best washing machine...and they would only fuck their husbands if they wanted something (like a washing machine) that had caught their eye. In the meantime, they were gladly fucking the living shit out of the younger tennis pro at the club.
Word spread like wildfire anytime a new one started, it was like a contest to see who could get laid first, who could give him a BJ first, who could get nailed anal first...whatever. The pros were quiting because they couldn't keep up with the wives. All known to be true becuase we both knew tennis pros in the area! Anyway, this woman was engaged, and I finally asked her how much she loved her husband. We were alone in the store and she said she adored him, etc.
But the longer the day went she sadly admitted how much she was realizing that she was looking for the security of money herself, and wasn't feeling love towards him. I suggested that she was becoming her own pet peeve and should just become a syraight forward whore instead. She was taken aback a bit, until I added a unchline that at least it was all down to business when she wanted something, no lying to a mate about it.
The conversation came and went until she asked , "But who would pay me for sex? " in all honesty. I answered back with, "I would in a heartbeat! " with a laugh. Her eyes widened and I tossed out , "I've got 50 bucks in my pocket, I'll give it to you to fuck me in the storeroom right now. " The door was locked in an instant and I fucked the shit out of her. I gave her the 50 bucks and she was amazed. I told her I had no problem with it, because as she had pointed out, most of the time men are paying for sex even if they didn't want to admit it. She asked if I had paid before and I said yes, and that 99% of guys had been whoring before even if they didn't admit it. I just told her I didn't find it to be a big deal. The next days work I joked that I couldn't afford more than 20 a shift for a quicky with her if she was game.
I fucked her every day we worked together for months. After she married I kept fucking her, and it got a lot hotter when I was "the other man". She brought her husband in at one point and he was a complete fucking dork. A moron with some sort of high paying job but no brain cells to actually hold a conversation with her.
Thereafter I asked her to leave him everytime I was in her. She couldn't make up her mind, I moved out of the state. Maybe I should have tried harder? So my male friends can't find a woman, yet proudly proclaim they won't pay for sex. YET, they will dump 300 dollars oon a stupid dinner hoping to "Get Some" afterwards. I just can't do that. I don't give a fuck if I get sex from a woman on a date or not. I would like a nice conversation and something in coomon with a woman. Sex is always nice, but if its a problem, there are plenty of real and imagined whores to get your glands on anyway.
I'm thinking my one friend really wants a steady woman but is making sure it won't happen. He never falls for anyone who doesn't have a BF, husband or something else. Then, in fits of stupidity can't talk to them, and does things like text message his undying love to them at 4 in the am on a worknight. Then he wonders why they never talk to him again. I am tired of the whole chase right now for myself and haven't had the heart to care about anything.
Maybe I should go on a grand Oscar Wilde 1890's whoring adeventure in TJ or something.Maybe I should get a certain 19 year old friend drunk and naked. People all just wanna get naked anyway, I don't know why all the headgames about age, commitment and all that. When you find the right one it may happen. It's the damn churches that complicatd it all so much. I am supposing cave men/ women rather just fucked until a kid showed up, and that bonded them together. Oh well, I need to not be bored today. 
