  My man has the opportunity to get his child.  whose mother happens to be a drug addicted whore who has been put into rehab.  Now this is a VERY good thing to happen.  the child is seven and he deserves the chance at a happy life.  now how does this complicate things?  Now,
 I of course tell him,  go for it,  you have to.  but this may mean WE might be over.  and he says he wants NOTHING to come between us because he loves me.  (
i love him too,  i know we haven't KNOWN each other long,  but what the fuck,  no one really understands love anyway.  I tell him if he doesn't try his best to save the boy who has behaviour problems due to the circumstances he has lived in he will grow to resent me anyways and then what the hell is the point?  Now to understand HOW this complicates things I will tell you a bit on,
 no I won't tell all right now. busy I am : D and hell,  maybe people will want to know what is going on. it was in the papers.  lol This complicates things because in the near future I plan on moving myself and my children to another location and changing our names.
BUT if he has his son then we can't just up and move unless he has FULL custody and is willing to change his child's name and then that child would also have to be cut off from his family.  not things I would wish on a child.  more later.
