  MOTHBALL DIARY We had another meeting tonight at Katy's house. Katy put together a list of possible sponsors and we each have contacts to ask to contribute. We discussed the band and DJ situation. We have three months left and we are beginning to feel the pressure so naturally we wandered off to discuss the connection between men and porn. "It seems to me that gay men would be more apt to have porn because they are so much more promiscuous than straight men," said KM. "I disagree," KS argued.
"I bet there's porn in your house that you don't know about. " "But when I worked at the hair salon, all the gay guys talked about how they watched porn and their sexual adventures. " "Gay men are more likely to open up and share with you about those things because they view you as a friend, confidant and equal. Straight men would never share that with you unless you were a lesbian," I offered. "What do you mean? " "Straight men view women as either a potential sexual experience, their mother or someone who will tell whatever they say to their wife or girlfriend, which will make their life a living hell.
" "That's a good point. " "Men are biologically created to want to mate and think about sex constantly," KS explained. "They also have permision to be more open and honest about it because even if they are dating someone or in a relationship, it is somehow more acceptable. " "I would agree with that for the most part," I said. "Gay men tend to have make open relationships part of their lifestyle more commonly than their straight counterparts. " "I don't think women are able to do that as easily.
I mean, open relationships are a great idea in theory, but I would just be too jealous. " "It's not for me," I advised. "However, I can see why three-way live-in relationships would be attractive. 'Oh, you're going down to the dungeon to take turns fisting one another? Y'all have fun. No, I think I'll just spend a quiet evening on the couch with Edith Wharton.
' I would love having a night off. " We laughed and I felt my bond with my straight sisters bringing us closer together. We realized we got off track and got back to business for a few minutes. "Have you read the new David Sedaris book? " "I just got it in the mail today. I'm so excited.
Is it good? " "It's the best one yet. Although, his fascination with feces disturbs me. " "Not me. I'm a mother and pet owner. I live with shit every day.
" Here we go again. 
