  After I blogged last night, I called Joel. Haven't talked to him in forever, mostly because he's busy as hell, and the time difference can be a real bitch. In fact, it was the first time we actually talked since me and the ex split. It meant to much to me to talk to him and hear him be nice and comforting and asking if I was doing okay. I've missed him terribly. His simple, genuine concern and kindness almost undid me. Amazing how something like that from a friend can just be overwhelming. Thanks, babe. It meant a lot. Hope to talk to you again soon! 
