  Sad... Talkin' about friendship maitenance, it can be really tough! Sometimes we need certain skills to maintain a connection with someone [ but unfortunately not everyone was born with such skills!
:( ] ! I don't know what else to write cos i just feel bad that a friend of mine just ended his friendship with someone. Of course both of them are my friends and one of them is even my buddy! I still remember that my buddy told me this :"When you are my friend then forever u are. That's mean I already accept who you are! " but now ....sigh No matter what happens I have to accept this lo... hope that both of them will be happy for current state! Well, another thing is try to share problems with friends.... It is unhealthy to burden yourself with problems that u might not be able to cope with ( ya.. may be u think u manage to solve it on ur own! ) !!! Speak it out and it will set you free! We tell others our 'inner thoughts' doesn't mean that we think our 'secrets' are very 'big' and important enough to let the world knows it! Let me put it this way : I will act very weird when I encouter some problems.. my face is like 'shit'... don't feel like talk to others... friends talk to me and i give them no response etc.. After a while my friends sure will think that I am an ass hole.. cos I was too RUDE to them.. but did they know my problems..?? So hor... let others know ur problems first la and then ur buddies will know y u act in such a way!
Not only that, encouragement from friends are very very important! But I understand that some guys tend to act like so macho!!! They thought sharing secrets or problems are only done by girls. So they won't say a word about what their problems are... but acted very very RUDE one... Well i talked too much liao... hehehe hope u all know what i m trying to say la 
