  I was just on Bill Roberts page and blogging with his people. He was talking about pendulum swings, how we find something out to be wrong and, instead of trying to find out what is right, we automatically think we have to "cross to the other side of the road.
" For instance, when I was divorced, I assumed all men were bad. This was only natural for a hurt human being to think, but it was completely wrong for a Christ-loving woman to think. Afterall, Jesus is a man. I was so busy hating men and thinking the worst of them, I almost missed an awesome opportunity to be ministered to. When I found out I was lonely and no better off hating men than before since I wasn't healing, I went the opposite way.
I tried to find out what was wrong with me by having meaningless relationships. I remember looking into each guy's eyes and trying to see what he saw in me. Did he see ugliness? Poverty? Death? Or did he see in me life? Love? Beauty? It took me a while, but I realized I didn't even see anything in my own eyes when I looked in the mirror.
That was a revelation and I only received it because God smacked me in the head with it!!!!! Girls, so often, are hurt by men and do one of these two things: hate all men and are guarded for the rest of their lives, or think that it's their own fault they were hurt and search for answers in countless fleshly relationships. Notice I used the word "girls" instead of women. I was a girl when I was married and tried both paths after the marriage died.
More than anything, I KNOW that girls have to see men following after God with their whole hearts if they are going to have any faith in the male species. So, now when I see a man totally in love with my God, then I'm encouraged. There is hope for girls and there is also hope for the Church in America. Revival will happen with the men. They are the missing component. 
