  I promise to be a little nicer and a little less uptight. I promise to be a little less obsessive-compulsive. I promise to be a little less anxious if we are ever late for anything. I promise we'll go skydiving.
And scuba diving. And rock climbing. Whatever you want to do, wherever you want to go. I even promise to visit Argentina with you. Will you come and visit France with me too? I promise to let you have a dog. I promise we'll take a walk, barefoot, by the shore, as often as we like. I promise to let you teach me how to cook. As long as you eat it and say "Good job, Carlo. " With conviction. I promise these, and perhaps much more. If I make it to "40. " 
