  From: "Shannon Yevcak" To: spoolboy@autospeed.com Subject: It's going to be ok Date: Thu 07/11/02 06:53 AM I've got to remember to leave these emails open for a little while longer, I always think of something to add to the end. Silly me :) It's going to be OK. All of it. This calm is not leaving me! I read the email from Paul to you back to Paul again - thank you - gee, it sounds like you guys are about ready to smooch I get pictures :-D What you wrote back will help me out a lot. You're outside, you're very intelligent, you're level-headed about all of this. I know Paul needs someone to talk to. I need someone to talk to too. You're really helping out with everything. I didn't plan on putting you in that situation. You've got some kind of grace. And I mean definitions #2 and #3: 2. politeness: dignified, polite, and decent behavior She fended off queries with her usual grace.
3. generosity of spirit: a capacity to tolerate, accommodate, or forgive people You've got it in great quantities. I'm learning! Will you teach me that? Among the million other things I want to learn from you, can you slip that in somewhere along the line? Please? You never cease to amaze me! I think I'm unserstanding something new! "Growing old with someone" is about GROWING, not getting wrinkles... 
