  So I found this personality disorder test. Big surprise, I scored way high on the "avoidant" category. Oooh, and look, I'm really obsessive-compulsive, too! Disorder Rating urlLink Paranoid : Moderate urlLink Schizoid : Moderate urlLink Schizotypal : Moderate urlLink Antisocial : Low urlLink Borderline : Low urlLink Histrionic : Low urlLink Narcissistic : Low urlLink Avoidant : Very High urlLink Dependent : Moderate urlLink Obsessive-Compulsive : High -- urlLink Personality Disorder Test - Take It!
-- Here's what I think of the descriptions of these two disorders: stuff in italics is definitely not me. The other stuff is pretty much true. Avoidant Avoidant personality disorder is characterized by extreme social anxiety . People with this disorder often feel inadequate, avoid social situations, and seek out jobs with little contact with others. They are fearful of being rejected and worry about embarrassing themselves in front of others. They exaggerate the potential difficulties of new situations to rationalize avoiding them.
Often, they will create fantasy worlds to substitute for the real one. Unlike schizoid personality disorder, avoidant people yearn for social relations yet feel they are unable to obtain them. They are frequently depressed and have low self-confidence. Obsessive-Compulsive Obsessive-Compulsive personality disorder is similar to obsessive-compulsive anxiety disorder. People with this disorder are overly focused on orderliness and perfection. Their need to do everything "right" often interferes with their productivity.
They tend to get caught up in the details and miss the bigger picture. They set unreasonably high standards for themselves and others, and tend to be very critical of others when they do not live up to these high standards. They avoid working in teams, believing others to be too careless or incompetent. They avoid making decisions because they fear making mistakes and are rarely generous with their time or money . They often have difficulty expressing emotion. Wow. So I agree, I really am obsessive-compulsive. Eeek. 
