  examples of why being a woman pisses me off: How the fuck do women and men ever get together then stay together? The e-mail that I just read from Shaun and letting go of a considerable amount of rage, made me realize that...
I'm a fucking jerk... If you read it like a woman, you see "Oh, What an inconsiderate ASSHOLE. " However, looked at through fresh eyes and with previous knowledge of the relationship, not to mention the follow-up e-mail, one might conclude with: "He's just trying to watch out for her and make sure she doesn't hurt herself with hopes of something that might not happen. " Sure he could have put it a different way and if he were a woman... he would have. He's a man and as it was explained to me last night, men aren't good at a number of things. Sometimes that includes conveying feelings. As a woman, I need to accept that. Men and women are DIFFERENT!
This is just a reminder, to be more careful and to watch myself. I know Shaun will still do it and he will always do it, he feels a certain duty to look out for me. However irritating that might be, it's just the way it is. I remember him saying that he wouldn't allow me to get hurt again, I guess this is his way of fulfilling that duty for himself. 
