  Defensive is a child of a succesful marriage of insecurity and low self-esteem. Do you mind if someone said something totally untrue about you? Will you step up to defend yourself or will you simply smile? Will you draw out your sword and prepare for battle or will you laugh over it and find this an excuse to feast with them? When they point their finger at you, do you hold their finger and point to somewhere else? i duno who this girl is but i found her blog hopping. thanks much you smart girl you! 
