  What is LOVE? Love or Lust? According to 1 Corinthians 13:5 love is not self seeking, is not rude, is not easily angered, and does not keep records of wrongs. So why in today's culture is "love" something some guys use to try and make there girlfriends have sex with them if its not self seeking? "ill know you really love me if you have sex with me" that's such bull that is self seeking and rude. So obviously its not the love the Bible is talking about! The "love" that is portrayed in America today is not love most of the time its lust!
And its every where in the media. I watched 4 movies on Friday and every single one had a scene that was a sex scene or implied that the people had sex and almost every time after the people would be like "I love you". This makes me mad cause sex is something to be shared between two people who are married and only those people who are married. That's the way God intended it to be. Like and Love two different things When you love someone is unconditional supposedly. I mean kids my age sometimes do not like their parents but still love them all the same cause they are their parents. But that is a different type of love then "I love you" and even in that case I don't think that you always like the person.
I mean I bet there have been times when my parents didn't like each other for things said or something done but they still loved each other. So when kids who date each other for like a week are like " I am so in love with him or her" its normally not true. I mean I would say that I am guilty of saying that before. But now that I have come to this conclusion I don't think I will so openly use the word love towards people.
Except if I'm talking about the Christian sense of loving people in which we are suppose to love everyone like we love ourselves. But I'm defiantly going to think about it before I use the phrase "I love you" with some one again. Think about it if you have any comments write me at punkchique53@aol.com later 
