  When I walk into a club/ bar/ restaurant/ anywhere the opposite sex might be, I feel like a lioness on the prowl. The second I step through the threshold I know, within two quick heartbeats, if I will hunt down anyone in the bar. I scan the room. 99.9% of the guys present aren't even worth my glance. And yes, this is superficial, but I'm not talking about finding my soul mate here. Take tonight for example. I had been swimming, hanging out by the pool, & cooking all day with friends. I went to the bar for dollar beer night on a whim. Because I had been swimming, I had no makeup on and my hair was still a bit wet and plastered to my head. But I stepped in the bar and -- am not trying to sound pretentious here-- but heads turn. Even dressed in my jeans & t-shirt, without makeup, I can make guy look at me.
I call it magnetism, my friend Leah calls it je ne soi qua , Austin Powers calls it Mojo, but whatever it is, I think I have it. And that's all that matters. The attitude. I was let down by the selection of males tonight. Drank my lone beer. Left disappointed. Other instances, I'm rewarded much more easily. Last week on campus, for example, I was walking to class. A handsome guy was walking towards me. I could tell by the way he was looking at me that he found me attractive.
And it was reciprocated. When he walked next to me, I pulled my sunglasses down the bridge of my nose and smiled at him. He walked past me and kept his head swiveled to keep his gaze on me. He kept turning to look at me until... well... He hit a pole. 
