  the bigger part of this is... in his world we haven't started a relationship until we're in the same city... the flaw: I love my life, my job, my friends, my family... what would make me move, what would make either of us move, unless we had some kind of commitment to the relationship in hand???... will one of us just randomly move to city we never considered before?? that's fucked up logic.
oh please don't get your whitie-tightie's in a bunch... you wanted direct?... I sound more harsh than I mean... but it is how I feel... I will root around in the depths of my soul, to find how I really feel, and give you the straight "what is" any given time of day... then shrug and say "whatev"... to then skip off happily in another direction, stop for a moment, look back, smile and ask "well what are you waiting for? come on, hurry up, let's move! " 
