  Understanding? Good grief...sometimes I feel that Darren is trying to find reasons to get out of our relationship. Last night we had a huge talk and he said that it's possible that he keeps me at a distance with him because of his past hurts and relationships. He is looking for perfection and if he doesn't find it, he doesn't have to open up to someone completely. If he doesn't open up to someone, he won't get hurt. A defense mechanism. At least that is what I think. Any thoughts? 
