  even in urlLink Orkut ! Ok, so I guess anyone that is a member of Orkut has received by now at least a couple of invitations for adding friends from completely unknown people. My approach is that I check out their profile, if there is nothing that upsets me I add them as "never met" the lowest end of the scale of friendship and then send them an email asking why they have added me and whether we know eachother. Now the etiquette would dictate that the other person should answer back, responding to the questions even if they don't know me either or if they just found it funny to add me. It's just politeness that asks U to answer a message or a question. Now I am sending out an "ultimatum" (gee, how American does that sound! ) to these people: they are going to be deleted from my list if they don't answer. Is this too unpolite of me?!? ! 
