  For the purposes of understanding the lingo here, go watch urlLink "Mean Girls" &nbsp;first..... This weekend, Evan and I experienced movie reality in action at a good friend's party in DC. While at "Ben Bash VI" (cheap plug! ), we met several girls who participate in Ben's adult kickball league (he's the area president). Most of the girls in question were nearly drop-dead gorgeous. Just sick. Let's leave it at that and move along with this little life lesson.
The girls typified the Plastics from "Mean Girls. " They were beautiful, popular and&nbsp;dressed in tight, revealing clothes (one girl was wearing a camisole, which I'm told is the all-new rage in fashion -- lingerie worn on the outside). I'm not complaining about their appearance, but substance, that's a different story. I started conversations with two of them during the evening (just idle chit-chat, I wasn't looking for anything), and got the all-too-traditional blowoff of "I'm going to get a beer, I'll be right back . " It wasn't the blowoffs that was frustrating. It was seeing how they were only interested in each other and blew off nearly everyone else at the party. They were they're own clique (complete with a few a guys who came with them). They ditched the party at the same time, basically claiming that the party was leaving with them. There was an air about them that was palpable. Everyone felt it. Just a disappointing realization.
The lesson (if there really is one to learn here) is the well-known adage that beauty is only skin deep. Beautiful girls aren't always the most desirable. Yes, they're fun to look at (and they're clearly advertising their bodies when they were painted-on jeans and lingerie), but that doesn't make them the best girls out there. See ladies? It's not just girls who are looking for a "nice" person. 
