  You know, I would never wish half of what has happened to me in the past on anyone, ANYONE, but, when some of the shit I've been through starts happening to one of the most remarkable people I know, someone who has helped me through a lot of the pain I've had to bear, then it really cuts deep. My good friend, Jessica, is going through some of that now, it seems. I don't know how much she would want me to say, so I'll keep it breif: Jessica has a friend, and it seems she has a real love/hate relationship with this friend, though I'm not one to judge. She has said somethings behind Jessica's back in the past, but other than that she has been a good friend. But now it seems that she has decided to do this more and more, in a way that is destroying Jessica. When I heard about it, it cut me deep, because it sounds almost exactly what Megdalena did to me, when we broke up.
She went behind my back and told a whole bunch of lies and half-truths, and worse than that a whole lot of things I had trusted with her as secret, and it tore me asunder, and burned what remained to ashes. On one hand, I wanted to kiss and make up, and on the other, I wanted to give her a slow and very painful death. I know what you're going through Jessica, and I know how much it hurts. Just find the courage to stand up to her, and to YOURSELF.
The past is a painful thing and I am sure she will open the wounds of the past, but you have to overcome that... God, Jessica, don't do what I do and let that person destroy you without fighting back. You'll have my prayers, Jessica. 
