  Plus, I feel like I'm constantly taking care of two children... granted, one of them is old enough to wipe himself. Mostly. I have to beg him to shave, set an alarm for him every night (which he usually ignores) to wake him in the morning, pick up his clothes and 'toys' after him. Lately it seems I will have to start making him lunch for the next day because he can't even manage to remember to bring THAT. Just about the only thing I DON'T have to do is ask him to shower. I even recently pleaded with him to spend his 'spending' on clothes because ALL of his work shirts are frayed at the elbows, his pants are too tight, ALL his socks have holes in them, and most of his underwear is missing. For gods sakes the man won't even make sure his only three dress jackets are clean, so thats one more thing I have to figure out time and money to do.... he even goes to work with a ruined $600 dress jacket that has a HUGE rip in the back.
Mind you, he's already been given notice on his shody dressing. Like he cares. Oh, and I have to budget too, and constantly remind him "No you cant have that book today", though he often gets one anyway. Then he just smiles and says "but I saved $20 at the groceries" or something.... whats the point of saving money if you dont SAVE IT.
Yeah I suck at spending lately too, I'm too nice with offers to friends (mostly because i'm so desperate to go out with adults I'd PAY someone to be my friend... and seems that I have). Fuck it. The baby needs to eat, and then I have to do the dishes, laundry, and bathroom (i better do it soon, even I'M afraid to sit on the toilet) 
