  i begin to think, those bloggers out there. do they blog what they want others to read, to know about them? or do they blog what is happening to them in their own perspective, how they read themselves, and how they want to believe about themselves?
the former creates a make-believe world, in which they find comfort in having some sense of control over what others are reading, hence knowing, about themselves. and the impression they are creating may or may not be close to the impression that they actually made in real life. the latter creates a make-believe world in real-life, and reflects or documents it in the virtual. and probably to garness sense of control over what's happening to them in real life, through talking it out with themselves on virtual. and of cos, there is no reality to speak of, at least i dont believe in it. the subjective reality that we conjured is everything that is within our human capacity to know.
and the virtual and the so-called real life mutually influence each other, and in the gray zones, we seek for an objective truth that never exist. an objective truth that never exist cos both virtual & non-virtual planes are our creations. and any creation is inevitably conditioned and subject to limitations. and only what we make-it-up, we can know. for we cannot know what is non-existent. jus like if there is truly nothing, there is nothing to be known.
and the applicable points of this blabbering are: - whatever you do, you are creating it; and you have limitless freedom to alter, to choose, to manoveur. - whatever you do, you have no choice but to face the consequences of your actions. bcos all actions necessarily bring about some other actions or reactions in the manner of ripple-like effect. - and it means, though you have all the freedom in the world to do whatever you want, you recognise that your actions will affect others, just as others' actions will affect you. - and i deduce, if you want to live a happier life, it is wise to be considerate and make others happy too. 
