  This is what a friend told me I needed in a man...just after 2yrs of friendship she told me: Someone who will listen and probe a little, not too hard (ok...no pun intended), but just enough for me to understand that he cares about my feelings and my inner thoughts, he needs to provide for me a safe environment for me to express myself freely. He needs to be able to understand that sometimes during conflict that my first reaction or actions to a situation are not always what I truly mean to express.
He needs to be patient enough to wait for my true feelings to come out which are fair and loving. He needs to be a giver, because I am one, and not ask me what I want but listen and try to figure out what I need and give it to me. I need someone to help expose me to things because I am curious and loves adventure, but need someone to help pull me out into the world of the unknown. I need someone who will respect me and show me how a woman should be treated especially physically and sexually.
RESPECT, his mindset should be "now baby this is how a woman is supposed to be treated" so that my mind is renewed regarding relationships. I love quality time with my man, so he has to be someone that values one on one time. 
