  In recent posts, I announced that I hate my best friend's girlfriend. Let me give you some background: I met this guy a year ago and we hooked up. I got a kick out his personality and even though he would piss me off, we got along great. He was 19 at the time and I was 26. Yes, quite an age gap, but I was doing nothing illegal so I didn't care. Soon the sex stopped and we remained friends.
A real turning point in our friendship came when he had a drunken three-some with two 16 year olds. One of them got pregnant. My friend, "Leo", was torn and scared to death. The girls told anyone who would listen all about the encounter and of the pregnancy....and the people's reaction as you can imagine was not favorable towards Leo. Not being one to judge....although I did point out his lack of sound judgment in that affair...Leo came to me with his concerns. 16 year olds being 16 year olds, the two girls thought Leo should behave like he was a boyfriend to the girl.
And he did. He stayed with the girl and when she took the pills for the medical abortion, she was at his house. When some strong cramping came on, he called me and I came over....although I think they just felt better having an adult there. Leo soon started to fall for this girl, and despite the fact I really didn't like her as a person, I would try to be nice to her. I found the 11 year age gap between her and myself very difficult to handle...she's rude, bitchy, and she has an abnormally large forehead. I asked Leo if she's ever happy and he told me that was rare.
Leo was quite the playboy when I met him and I hoped when he did settle down, it would be with this amazing girl that no one could blame him for staying with. Since she's really not that pleasant and generally not a fun person, I began to suspect that Leo's reasons for staying with her were maybe more out of guilt than of feelings. She soon started telling him that my presence made her jealous. I had been allowing him to practice driving using my car and she felt that time we spent together was really doing other things. I can no longer hang out with my friend. If we want to hang out, we'd have to sneak around.
Yes, we used to fuck, but he's only my friend. I am tired of having a 16 year old dictate how I hang with my friend. When all your excuses for someone's behavior is "oh well, it's her age" then guess what, she's too young to be in a relationship. So hat's off to you "16 year old".....I'm out of the picture. **Leo had asked me to write about his story to see what other people thought. I was going to wait but since she pissed me off and this seems to be the end of my friendship with him, (and that hurts greatly) I decided to do it.
So I didn't repeat terribly personal information without consent. ** 
