  I previously wrote a fairly scathing vent about my husband here. I have decided to take it off because it is not really a fair thing to do. I am a pretty fiery person at times and I am a bit too quick to judge. Mind you he is a lazy bastard at times and I do get very pissed off at him when he appears not to think of things that seem fairly obvious to me like don't pee in the shower.
It is a disgusting habit and I don't know anyone who thinks it's a treat to clean urinals. But I do love him a lot and I cannot bring myself to imagine life without him. Sounds really sucky I know but I don't care. What is it in this life that makes it hard for people to see the good in others? Is it that we are forced to become so fast paced now? That we have barely enough time for ourselves that we can't seem to find time to invest in others? I find it hard these days to find time even to catch up with old friends let alone make new ones. Maybe i should stop blogging. But I don't think that would help either. Before I started I had the same problem. Everyone I talk to seems rushed off their feet, constantly time-challenged. All these gadgets are supposed to make life easier.
I think it is all a farce. It just makes it different. There is now more to do and not as many excuses for when it doesn't get done. Kids these days seem to grow up right before your eyes. I don't think I had even heard of the internet until I started work. My son (aged 4) now searches it for spider-man sites and robots dancing to cool music. I don't want him to loose his thirst for nature and going for walks along the local creek.
Finding spiders and getting his clothes dirty from head to toe. The dirtier the clothes I think the more fun he has had. I don't believe there are still 24 hours in a day. Maybe I have really terrible time management. Or maybe it is all part of getting older. 
