  1. At what age did you realize you were gay? 14, but i didn't really come out for real ("ummm, i'm kinda, umm, bi-curious, i guess..." doesn't count) at 21. 2. What did you do when you first came to this realization? i don't remember.
i sat on the notion of being queer for 3 or 4 years before i acted on it in any way (hooking up with a girl for the first time, joining the LGBT alliance at school, telling a few people, etc.). and then it was another few years of very gradually coming out, till i became officially open about it to just about everyone in my life maybe 2 years ago. 3. Who was the first person you told? in my own funny way, i made references and such to various people my senior year in high school. i also told the first guy i dated in college that i was "bi-curious" (HATE that term now). but the first person i "officially" came out to was Granger.
over email, too. 4. How did they react? he told me that was great, and he's here for me, and all the rest. 5. Did you go through a period of time thinking that you were bisexual?
i was "bi" for the first 7 years i was aware that i was gay. then for 2 years i was a lesbian. now i'm starting to think bisexuality again. 6. Did you ever date/get intimate with someone of the opposite sex? a few times.
7. Now that you define yourself as gay, would you date someone who is bisexual? i'd be a hypocrite not to. and it's kind of annoying me that being "gay" and being "bi" are clearly two totally different things according to whoever wrote this meme. 8. Would you ever date a drag king?
it would depend. i think drag kings are kind of lame. i get it and all, but it's just not my thing. and i would be pretty unlikely to date someone who was really into it. not because it would be an insurmountable difference or anything, but just because i'd be unlikely to fall in love with someone who was totally into something i find kind of silly. 9.
Would you date someone who was HIV positive? i've never been in that situation, and i don't think i can say what i'd do. take it as it comes, i guess. 10. Have you ever seen Cher in concert? no.
i am what they call a "Lesbian". that's a woman who is sexually attracted to other women. we do exist, you know. 11. If there was a pill that could make you straight, would you take it? Why or why not?
hell no! most of the time i'm wishing i was more dykey. 12. Is assuming that *most* gay men are whores and/or drug addicts a fair assumption to make or an unnecessary form of stereotyping? this is the most ridiculous meme question ever. i mean really.
yeah, i think all gay men are crack whores who take it up the butt for money. what the fuck do you think? 13. Is Tom Cruise "one of you"? ok, that last lame question might be surpassed by this one... who the eff cares what tom cruise's sexual orientation is? 14.
Do you use the words "fag" and "dyke" but then get upset when someone straight uses them? it depends on the context. though sometimes i feel it's a bit presumptuous. it kind of bothers me how much margaret cho uses the word "fag". even though i know she's, like, on our team and everything. and she's my absolute freakin' hero.
15. Are you sure it isn't just a phase, like Anne Heche? god, leave that woman alone. everyone is bisexual, to a degree. and how do we know it was just a phase for her? how do we know she's not dykin' it up in the privacy of her own home right now?
historically it has been very difficult for mainstream celebrities to be out to the world. thus, i don't think any of us can speculate much about which celebrities are and aren't gay. for all we know, hilary duff is giving britney spears the orgasm of her life as we speak. as for myself and phases, i don't believe in that. the whole point of queerness is that you fuck who you want to fuck. if i choose to sleep with a woman, that's my business.
if i choose to sleep with a man, same thing. 16. If someone saw you walking down the street, would they know right off the bat that you are gay? probably not. but that's because most people don't know what lesbians "look like". they assume we're all butch bikers or something.
17. Have you ever been to a rave? what the fuck does this have to do with being gay? 18. The BEST part about being gay? ummm, all the foxy ladies?
19. The WORST part? being totally invisible. and this new "marriage protection act" doesn't make things any sweeter, either. 
