  everythings cool in julia land. she just has some shit she has to work through (stress, school, work...) so really her change of persona has nothing to do with me. that made me really happy. i said: "is everything cool between you and me? " she replied: "yeah, everythings fine" i said: "ok, because i know eveything is cool on my side..." she replied: "yeah, its all cool over here too" that made me happy.
now i know everythings cool (i hope) and i just need to give her some time to work some shit out. she said after this week thingsll be better. im so happy for her. i was worried for a while, but now, i know shes ok. (sigh of relief)......... 
