  Beth Moore contends that each and everyone of us is the bride of Christ. I understand that she is in some way trying to lift the women that she was writing to to a special point of intimacy with Christ, and also make these women have feelings of importance. Beth, the bride of Christ is the Church, not just a church or it's Christian female members, but the Church on a universal level. Secondly yes each of us, men and women need to come to a closer intimacy in our relationship with Christ but false implication of scripture is not the way to get us there. Our level of importance is the same as it was yesterday today and tomorrow. We are God's creations bought and paid for by his Son's life, this makes us important to God.
The picture of the Church as the Bride of Christ should be humbling and reveal the nature of our responsibilities. Such as is the woman's role who is married. A couple in love who is ready to make a lifetime commitment to each other sees the good and the bad of one another but chooses to take the good with the bad for love's sake. Christ sees us, the Church, the good and the bad and chooses to help us work through the bad by uplifting the good in us-- for Love's sake. 
