  I know I am not ready to have kids yet. All I want is a puppy. My husband's mother keeps asking him if I am prego yet..I have a few issues with that. First is that, we haven't even seen each other since June, so if I am prego, it isn't his. Second, I don't really want a baby until after law school. I have 4 years ahead of me that are bound to be extrememly stressful and I would hate to not be able to enjoy my child growing up. There are other people in my husband's life that have asked a few times if and when am I getting prego. My conclusion is that the Chinese view of family is different from the American view of family in such many Americans who can have kids choose not to have them at all, or prolong it until mid-thirties.
Of course, I do want kids one day, but not until I have enough money to be able to buy them all sorts of crap that they don't need. My mother is another one who says I can have a baby while I am in law school. Geez! Who are these people fooling??? One thing is certain, I will have all my children in the US so we can all float in and out of China and other countries without having visa issues.
The truth of the matter is that everyone else is just anxious to see a black-Chinese baby. What color skin will it have? Will their eyes be like mine or his? Will their hair be curly, nappy, or straight? Honestly, I don't care, as long as my baby is healthy. 
