  Aha...gotcha! Actually, it was a comment from the last post that got me thinking about this. Pretend punishments... My very first Dom - shortlived - loved to spank. Problem was, he really needed an excuse to do it. It got a tad silly. He'd look at me and say..."Have you been a good girl?
" (Ok. That was my cue. ) "Oh, no Sir... I've been incredibly naughty! " I'd say, looking seriously ashamed of myself. The spanking/stapping/whipping would inevitably ensue. He loved it, I loved it. But WHY, OH WHY did we always have to go through this crap first???? Why is it that he never could admit that he just liked doing it? I get off on a pain (within reason). I get on even more on the fact that the person delivering is is enjoying it, or the effects, or the sounds, whatever.
My last Dom was much better. He's just give me that incredibly sexy look and say, "Mmmm, come here and let me tan that hide. " I really appreciate that. He liked it, I liked it. Everyone was happy and no one felt they needed to make up excuses for what they wanted. *sigh* Or am I missing something....? If you have an opinion on this one PLEASE WRITE A POST!!! urlLink Read more! 
