  How I wish to be urbane...The essence of the civilised world. The mark of a man. But how does one develop an urbane character? Travel. Social experience, as the term defines. It's a challenge to find an urbaner. Arduous to find a female urbaner. Simple conclusion: Travel. Socialise. Thus, developing ones' skill in language and culture...one becomes urbane, refined, polished in etiquette and social deportment. How I wish to be urbane... 
