  Well here we are after my husbands father leaves, and my dh is acting exactly as he always does when one of his parents come around. It happens every time and yet it always catches me by surprise. Maybe it is because he is normally so much fun to be around, now, well not so much. Maybe it is the crappy upbringing he had, the feeling like he disapoints them (which he doesn't) No matter what it is, it isn't our fault yet we pay. Normally I would blow up and there would be a big fight but I just hate to fight and would like to maybe ride this one out.
Lets see how it goes. My gut instinct is to punch him in the mouth, but I won't do that either. The far reaching effects are the children, because of his mood they are clingy, whiney, and all around ornery. He is bitchy because I am on the computer, WTF! We are in the same room, just not with my eyes on the same screen. If I did go and sit with him he wouldn't speak to me anyway. I should realize that is not the problem, the problem is he has a wild hair up his ass and until he gets over it this is the way it is going to be, fun week ahead, whoopie! Well and the friends comming over my darling husband put his charming spell on that one and insisted we go pick up his truck at the dealer RIGHT after work!!!!! So no friends over, I had to call them. Instead I got to look at his shining face growl and pick at everything through dinner at the crackerbarrel.
I can't wait to go to sleep tonight LOL! Whoo I hope this passes quickly. Don't get me wrong he isn't abusive or anything, just being all around cranky. When he used to get like this I walked on egg shells to keep the peace, after a few days I would blow up. Now fuck it, I won't make it my problem, not after 12 years of dealing with it. I will just keep my distance, hopefully it will pass before the argument. 
