  Sometimes something happens that makes you feel bad. I had been exchanging emails with one of my friends about relationships, past & present, that have been/are bad.
I was at my friend's house yesterday and we talked about my current relationship with my husband. During the conversation, my friend told me of a dream she had the night before that involved her ex-boyfriend and domestic abuse. I feel very responsible for bringing up dark memories & experiences that are deep in her subconscious, yet come out in her dreams.
I feel that I have indirectly hurt her, and that hurts ME really badly. I would never want to cause her any pain. She is a dear friend, and I owe her an apology. As well as a "cease and desist" from any further dialog regarding relationships from hell. Here's to SWEET dreams .... not dark ones :) 
