  Ugh, I just got off of the phone with my BIL (D). He and SIL (N) borrowed some money from us that was loaned to us for a down-payment on a house. They needed to do that because D started a new bank account and the bank didn't inform him until after he deposited his payroll check that there would be a ten day hold because the account was under thirty days old. They had drafted a check against the account for their mini-van payment, so they needed to borrow the money in order not to bounce the check. Grcmnky agreed to it as long as they paid it back when they got the money. They were supposed to have the money in the account yesterday. Grcmnky said to give them a day to pay it and then call. I call today and D informs me that they had this problem with the check deposit cleared up last week and that they won't have the money to pay us until Friday!
WTF??? The agreement was to pay us back when they had the check cleared. Not spend our money and pay us when it is convenient. We need that money for making a down-payment. I didn't think it was a good idea to lend out the money, but grcmnky insisted that he should help out family.
Well, no more. I won't allow it. I don't care if I look like a bitch. N is known for spending beyond her means, and so is D. They filed bankruptcy 2 years ago because they couldn't handel their finances. It didn't teach them much of a lesson, grcmnky &amp; I are both waiting to see how long it takes them to have either their truck, van, or house re-possesed because they can't pay their bills. 
