  Have you ever been in a situation that makes you so mad that you see red and want nothing more than revenge. How does one get past the feelings of getting even? Well first as humans we have to drop the mind set that we are perfect, and that we make mistakes too.
Still how does this really help us from not acting upon getting revenge? Praying is maybe the only thing that I have found to really help. I have tried other methods,however; to no avail came to realize that I still have to look in the mirror. What I see is not very nice and then I try and cover it up with new hair cut or color. Still, I realize it is still me in that mirror.
Someone once asked me "what is humility"I had a gamma of definitions for them. I do believe that when you forgive and really mean it in your heart that is humility. So the next time you feel so bad about being done wrong remember, try praying it will be by far the most effective way to feel better... 
