  I just got a call from my roommate, encouraging me to seek the Lord, not necessarily concerning my wife, but concerning His Presence, to dwell in the presence of God, and let Him work things out in His own way, which is usually beyond our comprehension. I find a lot of people with no faith, or little faith in God. A lot of people believe in God, but think He basically observes the things we do and sometimes gets disappointed and occasionally smiles and blesses us. But those people wouldn't dare to venture out and say God could do anything that they couldn't do.
I believe that my abilities are limited, but I have seen evidence that God's abilities are not. I believe He will bless me abundantly, and I believe that that will happen IN THIS LIFE! A great many people assume that because we must struggle sometimes, that means we will not have those things which God has offered to bless us with until we reach the Kingdom of Heaven.
Seldom is this true, unless that is all we strive to acheive! We must seek Him, and He will find us when we do. Whether my relationship with God has anything to do with my relationship with Christi has been a subject of long, tiresome debate, which I have been on both sides of many times, but one's relationship with God is understandably reflected in their dealings with people. 
