  MANHANDS Sometimes it's hard to concentrate on something, but it's damn near impossible not to think of something. The harder we work at pushing a thought out of our minds, the harder it works at pushing back in. In relationships, I call this the "Seinfeld Syndrome. " In the comedy television show, Seinfeld , the main character Jerry Seinfeld goes through a revolving door cast of women who would seem perfect for any other man, but just seem to have small quirks that drive Seinfeld crazy.
The more he tries not to think of what disturbs him, the more he is disturbed until finally he breaks up with the proverbial great woman because he is obsessed with the thought that her hands are too much like a man's. It's a vicious cycle in relationships. If we don't say anything, but try to push it out of our minds, we just think of it more. If we do say something, the more we pick and nag, the more that particular aspect of a person's character or appearance or behavior disturbs us.
The more it disturbs us, the more we pick and nag. I think the solution is to acknowledge the thought, but to accept it and not make a big deal of it. It will leave as quickly as it came if a big fuss is not made over it. And through this patented treatment system, even you can date a woman with manhands. 
