  Today... it was that I suggested going to Trader Joe's as opposed to just giving him food money because he likes to shop at Safeway.
Last weekend.. it was the fact that he is borderline abusive towards his kids, yells all the time, and I just can't stand much more. I had an anxiety attack Sunday because of it. I can't stand yelling. My mother yelled at me all the time when I lived with her.
SHE was verbally abusive. The rest of the time... it's hit or miss as to whether he's going to be in a good mood. If he is, and more often than not he isn't, then things are fine. We can all hang out, and life is good. If he isn't.. forget it.. he's rude and grumpy and leaves the rest of the house walking on egg shells. I'm tired of it. I feel like if I stay there much longer, I'm going to really grow to hate him and I don't want that. He's been a friend of L's for a long time and I don't see him suddenly exiting my life anytime soon.
Not that I have to be close friends with him, but I'd like to be able to tolerate him and right now that's getting more difficult. He's incredibly controlling towards his girlfriend (not my problem, but I feel sorry for her) and I guess I'm just at my wits end. Sorry.. this is really frustrating me. 
