  Excerpts from an article on FoxNews.com : The California Supreme Court today said no to gay marriage and invalidated all the marriage licenses granted by San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom. Sorry, Rosie O'Donnell. ...in the year 2000, Californian's passed Proposition 22 , which said marriage in California can be legal only between a man and woman. That proposition passed by an astounding 62 to 38 percent in the nation's most liberal state. So it's clear the residents of California and all over the U.S.A. want to keep traditional marriages law. But Mayor Newsom didn't really care about that, citing civil rights legislation. He put himself above the will of the people. And that's happening all over the U.S.A. Judges and politicians are saying we know best. You don't really count. Thank God, with apologies to the ACLU, that California's Supreme Court is still ruling on the law. I'm glad that the California Supreme Court is smart enough to recognize the dangers of granting marriage to gay couples.
As "harmless" as it may seem to gay-marriage supporters, gay marriage could cause serious problems in our society. Those in favor of gay marriage feel that people who oppose it are simply opposed because of bigotry and ignorance. However, this is not at all true. In countries where gay marriage has been legal for years already, there have been shifts in society that have been detrimental to families. The sanctity of marriage has been destroyed. Take a look at the following article, " Eleven Arguments Against Same-Sex Marriage . " I think it does an amazing job of helping us understand how the legalization of gay marriage could destroy our society.
Remember, God hates sin, but loves the sinner. He wants us to recognize our sin and admit our faults, so we can stand humble before Him. He will only welcome us into heaven if we make the personal choice to accept Him as our Savior and to denounce our sins. We will still be subject to sinful temptation and we will fail at times, but He knows this. We, as humans, are not perfect, but we can be made whole in God's image if we accept His gift of Salvation. I know many people, even through my church, that have struggled with the temptation of homosexuality. But it is a temptation that is sinful and unnatural and they now recognize that. Because it is a sin that many choose to define themselves by, it separates them from the love of God. To receive God's grace and mercy, you only need ask for it. But you may have to give up something (or some things) that you have strongly held onto for years that you have eventually allowed to define you. Do not let sin define your life! You will only find true peace in your heart if you let go of your sins and let God lead you in the direction He has already chosen for you. Don't let our society convince you that living by your own standards is okay/acceptable and that a sinful lifestyle is a healthy lifestyle... because it's a lie.
A lifestyle defined by sin only brings heartache and pain and a deep longing for something more... a void that can only be filled by God's love. And God does love you... no matter what you have done! He is waiting for you to recognize this and to turn to Him for help, love, and redemption. Pray. 
